On my previous post on Rejection, there is one part that I have posted a quote about F.O.R.G.I.V.E.N.E.S.S.
Forgive Those Who Insult You, Attack You, Belittle You or Take You For Granted.
But More Than This...
Forgive Yourself For Allowing Them To Hurt You
How do you actually forgive, that is the question you might be asking your deeper self? I have learnt by forgiving is learning to be GRATITUDE to the good things that he/she has done for you in the past. If that person had already insult you, attack you, belittle you or take you for granted; the best way is by saying THANK YOU everyday for those good things they have done for you at that moment of your life. Gradually, those feelings will slowly eliminate by itself day by day and you will slowly start to appreciate those little things that person was there at the moment in your life. Indeed, it works for me. In fact, I can sleep well everyday without dreams. By saying THANK YOU before I go to bed to rest my body, mind and soul helps me to sleep peacefully because of the positive energy flowing into your blood stream. I could feel happier now. I no longer need to hold the grudges that had already hurt me in the past.
No one in this world whom cannot forgive because we are all humans with kind-heart. How long will you hold those grudge? One, three, five years or forever? Do you think holding this grudge it seems like your shoulder is heavier than usual? As the matter of fact, when time passes by... you will tend to forgive to that person because their doings had past and no longer important to us. Most of us will hope that person will be a better person and also you do not want to involve anything with that person whom had hurt you in the past.
Because of the past experienced which had hurt you so much, it could be a blessing thing. In way, it is a blessing because you do not need to live up with that person anymore...
It is a rebirth of YOU, YOURSELF!
In conclusion, always forgive this people that mentioned below, by FORGIVING to a person makes a beautiful you in your character and attitude ^_^ People around you will like you even more because of your good attitude.
Also, remember must FORGIVE SINCERELY... if not, you are faking yourself out of your character, that is not going to be the best thing because you lied to yourself.
Tell yourself today that
I'M BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE
&
I SINCERELY FORGIVE MYSELF FOR ALLOWING PEOPLE TO HURT ME.
