Forgiveness

On my previous post on Rejection, there is one part that I have posted a quote about F.O.R.G.I.V.E.N.E.S.S.

Forgive Those Who Insult You, Attack You, Belittle You or Take You For Granted.

But More Than This...

Forgive Yourself For Allowing Them To Hurt You

How do you actually forgive, that is the question you might be asking your deeper self? I have learnt by forgiving is learning to be GRATITUDE to the good things that he/she has done for you in the past. If that person had already insult you, attack you, belittle you or take you for granted; the best way is by saying THANK YOU everyday for those good things they have done for you at that moment of your life. Gradually, those feelings will slowly eliminate by itself day by day and you will slowly start to appreciate those little things that person was there at the moment in your life. Indeed, it works for me. In fact, I can sleep well everyday without dreams. By saying THANK YOU before I go to bed to rest my body, mind and soul helps me to sleep peacefully because of the positive energy flowing into your blood stream. I could feel happier now. I no longer need to hold the grudges that had already hurt me in the past.

No one in this world whom cannot forgive because we are all humans with kind-heart. How long will you hold those grudge? One, three, five years or forever? Do you think holding this grudge it seems like your shoulder is heavier than usual? As the matter of fact, when time passes by... you will tend to forgive to that person because their doings had past and no longer important to us. Most of us will hope that person will be a better person and also you do not want to involve anything with that person whom had hurt you in the past. 

Because of the past experienced which had hurt you so much, it could be a blessing thing. In way, it is a blessing because you do not need to live up with that person anymore...

It is a rebirth of YOU, YOURSELF!

In conclusion, always forgive this people that mentioned below, by FORGIVING to a person makes a beautiful you in your character and attitude ^_^  People around you will like you even more because of your good attitude.

Also, remember must FORGIVE SINCERELY... if not, you are faking yourself out of your character, that is not going to be the best thing because you lied to yourself.

Tell yourself today that

 I'M BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE 

&

 I SINCERELY FORGIVE MYSELF FOR ALLOWING PEOPLE TO HURT ME. 

Rejection

What is REJECTION? This is defined by The Free Dictionary by Farlex :-

1. The act of rejecting or the state of being rejected. 
2. Something rejected.
3. Medicine. The failure of a recipient's body to accept a transplanted tissue or organ as the result of immunological incompatability; immunological resistance to foreign tissue.

My previous relationship was working fine until there is someone or somebody out there has given that "Bastard" an idea that religion incompatible when he promised me at the initial stage of dating that he does not mind to have me despite religion differences. But when I came acrossed with him about the future planning, he gave me an execuse of "Religion Incompatible" and I do not respect for that kind of reason, no matter what. Hence, this is the rejection I had from him being in the relationship for four years and knowing him for six years.

Since then, I never spoken to him. I have totally ignored him as a person. I despised him at the every bottom of my heart. He shattered my heart just like

"the glass is broken into pieces, it will be never have the same figure as before".

At times, the feeling is so horrible and I cried almost everyday asking "why is there rejection?", "why there is a sudden change of heart?", "why I have been asking him harshly and further details about the future planning?"... and asking so many reasons of "WHYs?" at times. My soul hurts so much until I could not forgive and forgotten on his words. He never apologized and never felt sorry that he had wasted my time. He is so coward to apologize! Since then, I could not forgive and forget until one day that I have came acrossed a quote (by 101 Powerful Affirmations), which stated that :-

Forgive Those Who Insult You, Attack You, Belittle You or Take You For Granted.

But More Than This...

Forgive Yourself For Allowing Them To Hurt You

Wow, this quote is so strong to define me at this situation! This is what I needed. I need to FORGIVE MYSELF instead I forgive the "Bastard", so that, in future I will not allow anyone to hurt me including myself. Since then, I have learnt ... 

Rejection in all its forms can sometimes be one of the best things that ever happens to you. It forces you to look deep inside, re-evaluate your worth and reaffirm who you are and what you have to offer.

Rejection can be the Miracle Grow you've been needing to take yourself to the next level.

~ Mind Movies ~

Yes, I agreed the quote above. Rejection is a way to look my ownself, my deeper self. Without this rejection, I would not have, that is called "Miracle Grow". With this rejection, I know that I should not have a relationship with this "Bastard" anymore. So...

Swiftly, after the rejection of "religion incompatible"... I fell in love with someone who deserve more than the "Bastard". I'm happier than ever. No regrets that I have been rejected by the "Bastard". He was there for me at times when I was at my saddest moment. He lifted up my soul. I missed him every moment and his laughter. So I thanked you "Bastard" to reject me and allowing me to find someone better than you. 

Anyway, this "Bastard" and a girl friend of mine that I used to hang out were into relationship. That is why he mentioned "religion incompatible" because of my friend whom has the "religion compatible" with him. So this is the Christian's favourite action!

I shall see your KARMA that is going to hit you in near future. Watch Out!